Fabián's Journal

On Control

Most of life is out of my hands. The weather turns. People change. Plans collapse. I’ve learned the hard way that trying to control everything outside myself only leaves me angry and exhausted.

The only thing that truly belongs to me is my response. My thoughts, my choices, my discipline—this is my kingdom. It may be small, but it is enough. In fact, it’s the only ground I can actually stand on.

If I can master my mind, I am free, even when the world is chaos. If I can’t, then no amount of control outside will save me.

“You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” – Marcus Aurelius