Fabián's Journal

Don't Break Promises to Myself

Confidence doesn’t come from hype. It comes from proof.

Proof that I say what I’ll do—and then do it.

Every time I snooze the alarm, skip the workout, or whisper “I’ll do it tomorrow,” I’m breaking a promise to myself.

And I remember.

Every excuse I make becomes a crack in my own foundation.

That’s how trust erodes—not with one big lie, but a thousand tiny ones I let slide.

If I want real confidence, I have to keep my word. Even when it’s inconvenient. Especially then.

I do it because I said I would.

“Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.” — Abraham Joshua Heschel